What is the relationship built on?
Often people offer their partnerfriends, when they are already going to break off relations, although from this it was necessary to start them. Do not forget that the relationship between a man and a woman is, first of all, a person's relationship with another person, and to improve them apply the same methods that help and in dealing with any people.
Having found their "half" people forget about it, andover time, begin to make high demands, hoping that a loved one loves you and must understand, and you can behave as you please! But, unfortunately or fortunately, there is no one in the world who could understand you completely, because nature has created each person differently in their own way. And so it is worth remembering the basics of building harmonious relationships. Let's consider, on what relations are under construction.
Strong, lasting relationships are built on trust. Trust is the basis for the development of true intimacy. If you want your relationship to be long, you should trust your partner with your present, past and future. Trust is easy to destroy and difficult to restore, the reward you will be those attitudes to which you have always sought, if you do not regret your strength.
Everyone has the right to make decisions and express opinions. Long-term relationships can not be built if you follow the rule "Who is not with us - he is against us".
It's about exchanging feelings and emotions. Tell your partner about your feelings about surrounding events, ask what he feels. If your partner keeps his emotions to himself, then you do not need to do this, because excessive closeness will make your relationship unnatural and false. Remember the children's game "spoiled phone", and do not talk too much with hints. Tell me at once what you did not like, it's better than putting a tantrum in a month, and expressing at once what has accumulated during this time in the shower.
To eat an apple, you first need to planttree, to grow it, to give it a blossom and for fruit to start. And in a relationship also. Some feelings arise immediately, others need time. Be prepared for the fact that the results may not appear immediately if you are doing something to improve them. Folk wisdom says that a small drop sharpens a hard stone. On internal changes you need to give your partner time. Read the wedding signs, if suddenly you will soon be married.
In a relationship, there must always be someone first. Make you the first step to build a relationship. If you need a second one. If your chosen one does not move towards you, then it is worth remembering:
Forcibly you will not be nice
Love without reciprocity is a painful experiencefor every person, forcing to go to anything, even force oneself to love himself. But it will not lead to anything good. As a result, there will remain resentment, a sense of humiliation and frustration for life.
Now you have learned or remembered what the relationship is built on. And do not forget about it!